Sexual arousal in men: how to understand that your partner is excited

Sexual relations are an important part of a healthy man's life. Sexual arousal in men can arise under the influence of various factors: a woman's appearance, erotic touches, memories of past intimacy. The sexual reaction of the stronger sex is a combination of physiological and emotional outbursts that should ultimately cause an orgasm.

Signs of arousal in men

Sexual arousal is the human body's response to sexual stimulation. Its strength and duration depend on hormone levels, well-being and anthropological characteristics (height, hair color).

The resulting desire in its manifestations is reminiscent of stress:

• the rhythm of breathing and heartbeat increases;
• pupils dilate;
• voice and behavior changes;
• blood pressure increases;
• muscle tension occurs;
• goosebumps appear on the skin;
• salivation increases.

Excitation process:

1. In men, the main sign of sexual desire is penile erection. Blood flow increases the length and diameter of the organ several times. The increase in length is an individual indicator; the small penis enlarges more during erection. It straightens and becomes hard. The resulting changes contribute to the insertion of the penis into the vagina.
2. With the transition to intimacy, a man's excitement increases, and with it all the body's reactions. Heart rate, blood pressure and muscle tension increase. The rhythmic friction of the penis against the walls of the vagina is a strong irritant.
3. In order to prolong sexual intercourse, it is recommended to temporarily stop friction to reduce tension. Discharge appears on the erect penis, which you should not be afraid of. This is the pre-seminal fluid that plays an important role in conception.
4. Orgasm is the peak of pleasure; it is the shortest moment of sexual reaction, lasting only a few seconds. It is followed by an eruption of semen. In men, the muscles of the body contract, various sounds can escape involuntarily and a feeling of euphoria appears.
5. The release of sperm occurs due to rhythmic contractions of smooth muscles. It starts with small portions, gradually increasing the volume of sperm. After the first jolts, nothing will stop the man from ejaculating. Each ejaculation is accompanied by sexual pleasure, especially in the area of the head and body of the penis.
6. After orgasm, the body returns to its normal state. The muscles relax, blood flows from the penis, and the organ shrinks. There is a refractory period during which the man does not get excited even by a physical blow to the penis.
7. The refraction phase is the time it takes for the stronger sex to recover before a new erection. It has no specific duration and can range from a few minutes to hours. With age, this gap increases. The angle of elevation of the penis in most cases reaches 60-90 degrees. The maximum peak occurs at the age of 20, and after 50 the angle noticeably decreases.

Discharge in men when excited

Clear viscous discharge from the erect penis is a normal physiological process. Lubrication in men during arousal occurs with the help of preejaculate. This sticky, colorless liquid is released through the urethra in preparation for intercourse or during masturbation.

The source of lubrication is Cooper's glands. Their secretions contain many enzymes and mucus.

The transparent secret performs several functions:

• isolates residual urine in the urethra;
• partially neutralizes the acidic environment of the vagina;
• lubricates the urethra for the passage of sperm;
• The discharge promotes painless intercourse.

The amount of lubrication varies significantly between men. It can range from a few drops to 5 ml or more. The main purpose of preejaculate is to prepare a favorable environment for sperm. Preseminal fluid neutralizes the acidity of the vagina, increasing sperm survival and the chances of conception.

For partners who prefer to interrupt coitus for contraception, the question arises of the likelihood of pregnancy if the lubricant comes into contact with them. Studies of the composition of preejaculate have shown that there are no seeds in it. But with repeated sexual intercourse, residual seminal fluid stored in the urethra enters the discharge.

The lack or excess of lubrication in men does not affect their sexual relations. Each manifestation is individual, there are no strict templates that you have to fit into. Enjoy intimacy without fear or prejudice.

One type of "lubrication" of the head of the penis is smegma. These discharges are not associated with sexual arousal. A white fat-like substance facilitates the movement of the head of the penis as it exits the foreskin. But a large accumulation of smegma causes penile skin inflammation and other problems. To prevent this from happening, it is necessary to flush the smegma daily.

How to excite a man

A man's sexual desire depends on many factors. If in his youth he is turned on by the very thought of intimacy, with age it becomes insufficient.

To increase a partner's libido, a woman will need special liberators or stimulants. It's in men's nature to judge visually, so strike attractive poses to arouse a man, wear seductive underwear, let your hair down. The sight of naked female organs and signs of the partner's desire also contribute to the emergence of a reciprocal impulse.

Various stimuli help to arouse excitement in the stronger sex:

• auditory;
• visual;
• olfactory;
• tactile;
• erotic fantasies, movies and more.

The awakening of sexual desire in a man should be approached individually.

1. To do this, it is worth studying his habits and preferences for music, food, aromas, etc. Aphrodisiacs help increase desire, they can be spices, food, drinks, aromatic oils.
2. Among the recognized causes of sexual activity: nuts, seafood, grape wine, herbs, herbs, fruit.
3. The scent of patchouli oil enhances sensuality and testosterone production. Young people will appreciate the scent of tangerine, verbena or cedar oil, and a mature partner will like juniper or sandalwood.
4. Before preparing a romantic evening with an aroma lamp, you must find out if the chosen one is allergic to the prepared aphrodisiac.
5. For some men, words can be a powerful stimulus. Certain phrases, from subtle hints of intimacy to outright lust, provoke sexual activity in a partner. Openness is appropriate when communicating with a known object of passion, and any man will love to talk about sexuality or praise the appearance.
6. Touch of varying intensity is a direct way to excite your partner. Monotony is harmful to sexual activity, in order to attract the desired man, a woman will have to resort to experiments.
7. You can start with a relaxing massage, gradually covering different erogenous zones and points. Touching breasts and nipples arouses the stronger sex no less than women. Give your partner the full range of sensations from gentle caresses and kisses to bites.
8. Don't skip the back and buttocks - here a light massage can end with a delicate nail caress.
9. The inner side of the thighs is another source of pleasure for men, gentle or hard touches are chosen by the partners themselves. For caresses, it is necessary to use not only hands and lips, but also the whole body. A man's stomach is one of the most erogenous zones. Exploring his language will be a real pleasure. The partner's closeness to the penis, lassitude and anticipation will quickly lead to an erection.
10. The penis is an erogenous zone for every man, its stimulation will surely lead to the climax of bliss. The most sensitive and sensitive part of the organ is the head. Touching and stimulating her tongue will make your partner forget about everything in the world. After you have studied the most sensitive points of a man, you can give him real pleasure.

Stimulants

Why do men experience reduced sexual activity? There can be many answers to this question: stress, past illnesses, age, fatigue and other reasons.

Pills for men to stimulate sexual desire will perfectly cope with the problem:

• A leader among stimulants. The pills, originally created to treat heart problems, became a powerful and fast stimulant.
• A drug from the group of PDE-5 inhibitors, whose active component improves erection. The drug does not affect the work of the heart and liver, and also does not change the composition of sperm.
• A Chinese medicine based on ginseng and deer antlers, which has fewer side effects.

Consequences of excitement without release

Sexual excitement does not always end with intercourse. The body, prepared for orgasm, remains in an overexcited state. If such situations are one-time, there is nothing to fear, they do not endanger health and potency.

What does a person feel when excited without release:

1. testicular discomfort or pain, slight swelling;
2. discomfort in the penis;
3. tingling in the back of the head;
4. pain in the lower abdomen.

Of these symptoms, pain in the testicles deserves special attention. This organ is important for men's health. It is responsible for the production of testosterone and sperm. If the genitals are healthy, the discomfort will disappear after 4 hours.

Pain in the testicles can be a signal of disease. If their size, density has changed or the pain has become sharp and severe, you should see a doctor.

Sexual desire is an important part of a person's sexual life. When a man is excited, it is better to use several methods, changing their order. This will give amazing results.